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Posts tagged facebook
I was feeling a little inspired today to address the topic of “The Ex” so basically I’m gonna get straight to the point. Unless you’re a martian living on planetFreakazoid I’m pretty sure you know what an “Ex” is, but in case you don’t..
An “Ex” is a former partner in which you were in a relationship with.
I don’t need to explain what a relationship is do I?? *long pause* Okay good!
So, Here my little theory of the “Ex” and why we tend to hate them oh so much…
Reason no. 1
Intimidation
I’m unsure of how many people will actually admit this, but main reason you “Can’tfuckin stand” your partners “Ex” is because you’re intimidated. I don’t blame you, to know that they once had your partner, or even worse, your partners heart can be a real disturbing thing to think about. I don’t care how secure you are with your relationship, best believe you’ve found yourself wondering about your partners “Ex” AT LEAST once!
Reason no. 2
Strong Friendship
Before you establish a relationship with anyone, it is important to have a strong stable foundation, in most cases that foundation comes in the form of friendship. Depending on how bad the break up was, I’m pretty sure your partner and their “Ex” have no hard feelings. and If there are hard feelings, and your partner is still bitter.. #HoustonWeHaveAProblem (Df you still bitter for?? Oh you still give a fuck I see) but yes, as a current partner, this friendship is something you are going to have to suck up, as long as the friendship isn’t too friendly, then you’re good. I know me personally, I prefer to be cordial with my “Exs” nothing more, nothing less.
Reason no.3
Contact Information
If the relationship didn’t end with a meteor in someones heart as I said before, then I’m pretty sure your partner still has a way to contact their “Ex” (ViceVersa.) Whether it be Facebook,Cellular device, Twitter, Family, Work, whatever… they are still able to contact one another, if need be. Because of this we are beyond irked! Why are you irked?? You shouldn’t have to ask, you already know. It all goes back to reason no. 1. Intimidation. The fact that the “Ex” can contact your partner makes you question what in the hell do they need to communicate for..and why!?
Reason no. 4
Thirsty (I want back in your life.)
Everyone has had, or has, a partner with a thirsty “Ex.” You know, the “Ex” that never goes away. The one where intuition is tellin you that this MF has ulterior motives. The only reason we tend to get so pissed about the “thirsty Ex” is because deep down the only thing we can think about is “They had em` once, they can have em` again.” And idk about any of y’all, but I’m not losin whats mine. The “thirsty Ex” can cause your relationship to go one of two ways. way no. 1: Uphill, sometime the “thirsty Ex” can bring a lot of security and trust into your relationship and allow you to see that your partner only has eyes for you. Or way no.2: Downhill, the “thirsty Ex” can cause major insecurities, arguments, and straight bullshit… IF YOU LET IT! .. be strong, stay secure.
Reason no.5 (last but not least)
Knowledge
At times we feel inferior to an “Ex” do to the fact that they know more about your partner than you do (only in the beginning.) They know exactly what makes your partner tick. What makes them smile, laugh, happy, mad, sad, all that shit that you are just figuring out. and with all the listing factors above.. you WILL have your worrisome moments..and again I say.. Be Strong!
Intimidation, Strong Friendship, Contact Information, Thirsty, and Knowledge.
All the key ingredients that it takes to hate your partners “Ex”.. but remember.. it starts with you…dont be intimidated.
When I first created my Facebook back in 08 Facebook was truly “The Shit.” Nothing could top it, and everything was all good. Writing on walls n shit was really somethin up until recently. I deactivated my Facebook June 3 2011 due to the lack of uneducated thoughts being frequently displayed. Whether it was wack ass FB games, shoes, purses, fake females (literally) or just plain ignorant posts floating around.. I was sick of it. Ive always been an avid tweeter, but once I deactivated my FB, let’s just say my tweet count went up, and I wasn’t complainin. I reactivated my FB late September due to the fact that I didn’t want to lose touch with the FEW people I did care to keep in contact with (some people still aren’t on the twitter bandwagon) After being gone from FB for 3 months it was as if EVERYTHING had changed.. Not only visually, but literally! It was as if the only post that were being made was a bunch of BS, nothing but drama, and ugly MF tryna “holla” I was like WTF! FB users hash-tagging shit that don’t need to be tagged! It was tragic! I’m still activated on FB.. But let’s just say my post count is limited! I’m contemplating deactivating again since everything on my FB is damn near private and I never post anyway, I’m sure I won’t be missed!
*rises hand*.. Excuse me but is that English? .. I seriously had someone ask me this question. My first thought was “WTF?” To answer that ignorant ass question.. i never said his name. Do you wanna know why? .. because its none of your business. I refuse to have people all in my business wondering who im with, what we do, and if we are fucking. it seriously should concern NO ONE! The first step is to admit you have a problem, and i do. im a social network junkie! And one thing i have learned from social networks is to never let bitches in your business (males included).. shit always seems to get real when you decided to change your relationship statuses and get married via twitter i.e. “Twifey” and all that other shit. But since we are admitting our addictions, how about you admit that you’re addicting to being nosy AF. Mind your own business, or get some. After that, everything will fall into place.
