The Beautiful Truth

My 3 most recent tattoos! Stories coming later!

Sat, 10 Mar 2012 08:18:03 -0500

My 3 most recent tattoos! Stories coming later!

Women are never truly satisfied..

Mon, 27 Feb 2012 07:28:55 -0500

… We keep searching for the perfect man without recognizing that every man is flawed. There is never going to be a man who doesn’t piss you off. I guess finding “the one” is deciding whose bullshit you can put up with for the rest of your life. Sounds kinda depressing if…

"HYFR"

Sat, 11 Feb 2012 18:09:50 -0500

“HYFR”

- Hell Yeah, Fuckin Right

Clark Atlanta University!

Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:50:04 -0500

I just Can’t Hide My Panther Pride!

Beautiful

Thu, 26 Jan 2012 02:41:30 -0500

Beautiful

The Ex Theory

Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:08:00 -0500

I was feeling a little inspired today to address the topic of “The Ex” so basically I’m gonna get straight to the point. Unless you’re a martian living on planetFreakazoid I’m pretty sure you know what an “Ex” is, but in case you don’t..

An “Ex” is a former partner in which you were in a relationship with.

I don’t need to explain what a relationship is do I?? *long pause* Okay good!

So, Here my little theory of the “Ex” and why we tend to hate them oh so much…
Reason no. 1

Intimidation
I’m unsure of how many people will actually admit this, but main reason you “Can’t~~fuckin~~ stand” your partners “Ex” is because you’re intimidated. I don’t blame you, to know that they once had your partner, or even worse, your partners heart can be a real disturbing thing to think about. I don’t care how secure you are with your relationship, best believe you’ve found yourself wondering about your partners “Ex” AT LEAST once!
Reason no. 2

Strong Friendship
Before you establish a relationship with anyone, it is important to have a strong stable foundation, in most cases that foundation comes in the form of friendship. Depending on how bad the break up was, I’m pretty sure your partner and their “Ex” have no hard feelings. and If there are hard feelings, and your partner is still bitter.. #HoustonWeHaveAProblem (Df you still bitter for?? Oh you still give a fuck I see) but yes, as a current partner, this friendship is something you are going to have to suck up, as long as the friendship isn’t too friendly, then you’re good. I know me personally, I prefer to be cordial with my “Exs” nothing more, nothing less.
Reason no.3

Contact Information
If the relationship didn’t end with a meteor in someones heart as I said before, then I’m pretty sure your partner still has a way to contact their “Ex” (ViceVersa.) Whether it be Facebook,Cellular device, Twitter, Family, Work, whatever… they are still able to contact one another, if need be. Because of this we are beyond irked! Why are you irked?? You shouldn’t have to ask, you already know. It all goes back to reason no. 1. Intimidation. The fact that the “Ex” can contact your partner makes you question what in the hell do they need to communicate for..and why!?
Reason no. 4

Thirsty (I want back in your life.)
Everyone has had, or has, a partner with a thirsty “Ex.” You know, the “Ex” that never goes away. The one where intuition is tellin you that this MF has ulterior motives. The only reason we tend to get so pissed about the “thirsty Ex” is because deep down the only thing we can think about is “They had em` once, they can have em` again.” And idk about any of y’all, but I’m not losin whats mine. The “thirsty Ex” can cause your relationship to go one of two ways. way no. 1: Uphill, sometime the “thirsty Ex” can bring a lot of security and trust into your relationship and allow you to see that your partner only has eyes for you. Or way no.2: Downhill, the “thirsty Ex” can cause major insecurities, arguments, and straight bullshit… IF YOU LET IT! .. be strong, stay secure.
Reason no.5 (last but not least)

Knowledge
At times we feel inferior to an “Ex” do to the fact that they know more about your partner than you do (only in the beginning.) They know exactly what makes your partner tick. What makes them smile, laugh, happy, mad, sad, all that shit that you are just figuring out. and with all the listing factors above.. you WILL have your worrisome moments..and again I say.. Be Strong!

Intimidation, Strong Friendship, Contact Information, Thirsty, and Knowledge.
All the key ingredients that it takes to hate your partners “Ex”.. but remember.. it starts with you…dont be intimidated.

Why I'm Attracted to Black Men..

Tue, 24 Jan 2012 03:47:30 -0500

Where do I begin when it comes to our black men?! In this post I want to make sure that you are all well aware that I am referring to the attributes of a real man in everything that I say. Not a “boy” “guy” “dude” and/or “nigga.” I am talking about a REAL BLACK MAN!

I want to make sure that readers know that it takes more than a penis and some gonads to make you a man. A real man is a strong, focused, and goal oriented individual who provides, supports, believes, and respects his family and those around him. I could go on for days about what it takes to be a Real Man, however I won’t due to the fact that Real Recognize Real!

Why am I attracted to black men? Lets get started. There are oh so many reasons.. I think the main reason that I am attracted to black men is because I respect their daily struggle. The life of a black man in no way, shape, or form seems easy. Its as if everyday they have so many strikes against them. But to continuously rise after being knocked down is a beautiful thing.

I’m attracted to the fact that our black men come in all different shapes, shades, sizes, and whatever else differentiates you from the next individual. Its absolutely breathtaking to see the pride that our black men take in the way they look. There is nothing more sexy than a black man looking his best regardless of what he’s doing. Whether he’s at the gym, office, mall, or just finished working in the yard, you can tell when man is proud of everything that he is.

Speaking of being proud, confidence is key, real back men are not cocky. It takes a lot to be successful, and to be humble about you’re success. In no way does that mean to down play all that you’ve accomplished, however to have a humble black man who knows he’s “doing the damn thing” yet is humble in the fact that he is doing so is a big ass turn on!

I could go on for days about why I’m attracted to black men, whether it be based on looks or personality, but I wont, just know I will forever worship my black kings.

point.blank.period.

Me and my Eggs!

Wed, 11 Jan 2012 08:28:16 -0500

So I’m up sitting here thinking about all the major decisions I’ve made in my life, and how everything has went my way! .. Not proud because as you can see, by putting all of my eggs into one basket, i failed to create a back up plan. Whether it be applying for a job, college, or men, I’ve always had one choice, and succeeded with that choice. Recently I’ve gotten myself into a sticky situation, and im not as positive about this as i am with all of my other decisions.

I’ve been dating a guy for awhile now, and recently he left state. While he was here, we spent every breath together. I can’t think of a moment in which we weren’t spending time. and if we weren’t physically together, we were on the phone. straight up.

Let me put this out here, im not one to cling in relationships, i like my space. But this guy is truly a joy to be around. We joke, laugh, talk shit, argue, make up, and most importantly.. we love hard.

Having him so far away has recently taken a toll on how I (mind you i said I) view our relationship. I trust him without a doubt. But recently females have been on the chase (Thirsty ass MF) and it makes me slightly insecure due to the fact that I’m not physically there.

don’t get me wrong, in no way shape or form do i think that a dusty (or cute) female can take him away from me, He’s done more than enough to reassure me that i am his… but without sounding too contradicting, I’ll say that i know the thought process of a man.. (they don’t ~~always~~ think rationally)

For the first time in my life, i’m afraid to put all my eggs in one basket (to give him all of me and put my all into him). I’m afraid that I officially share the same fear that MOST females have.. the fear of being hurt.

This distance has caused a major insecurity in which i end up dealing with internally when my mind starts to wonder.

It’s something that im working on, and i definitely plan on cutting it out.

In conclusion, in all of my decisions it is never my intention to put all of my eggs into one basket, thats just how the chips fall. when it comes to this relationship, im just going to sit back, and relax. as cliche as it sounds, and as painful as it might be, ULTIMATELY…(and i do mean ultimately) i’ll be okay IF (IF) it falls through. Obviously it wasn’t in my plans.

Im just use to things going my way. Im so passionate about this relationship, and I really want it to work.. distance and all…

Smh at these damn eggs!

Farewell Facebook, we had good times!

Thu, 10 Nov 2011 11:20:00 -0500

When I first created my Facebook back in 08 Facebook was truly “The Shit.” Nothing could top it, and everything was all good. Writing on walls n shit was really somethin up until recently. I deactivated my Facebook June 3 2011 due to the lack of uneducated thoughts being frequently displayed. Whether it was wack ass FB games, shoes, purses, fake females (literally) or just plain ignorant posts floating around.. I was sick of it. Ive always been an avid tweeter, but once I deactivated my FB, let’s just say my tweet count went up, and I wasn’t complainin. I reactivated my FB late September due to the fact that I didn’t want to lose touch with the FEW people I did care to keep in contact with (some people still aren’t on the twitter bandwagon) After being gone from FB for 3 months it was as if EVERYTHING had changed.. Not only visually, but literally! It was as if the only post that were being made was a bunch of BS, nothing but drama, and ugly MF tryna “holla” I was like WTF! FB users hash-tagging shit that don’t need to be tagged! It was tragic! I’m still activated on FB.. But let’s just say my post count is limited! I’m contemplating deactivating again since everything on my FB is damn near private and I never post anyway, I’m sure I won’t be missed!

Dear My Fellow Black People

Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:53:16 -0500

Why is it that SOME of us feel the need to be as loud as humanly possible at ALL times of the day and night?! It’s not necessary… We hear you!!! If you are concerned about being heard.. Throw a couple “ya feel me’s” into the convo, I’m sure you will get a response!

"Yes I love kids, no I don’t want them anytime soon!"

Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:14:00 -0500

“Yes I love kids, no I don’t want them anytime soon!”

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Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:13:00 -0500

I still manage to miss him!

Sun, 06 Nov 2011 00:00:00 -0400

Monday: Trick or Treating with my boyfriend and his nephew :)
Tuesday: watched T.V with my boyfriend :)
Wednesday: Play fought with my boyfriend :)
Thursday: another T.V day with my boyfriend :)
Friday: Spent my drunk night with my boyfriend :)
Saturday: ... Didn't see my boyfriend at all.. #Fail :(

This picture was taken this past summer and I was flying a kite...

Sat, 05 Nov 2011 20:53:00 -0400

This picture was taken this past summer and I was flying a kite with my best friend. I’m posting this photo because it looks as if I’m reaching for something. Currently I’m at a point in my life where I’m trying to achieve a very large personal goal. This picture shows me smiling while I’m reaching, which personally symbolizes that the road to my goal can be just as rewarding as the feeling I’ll have once my goal is achieved!

"illest bitch alive, illest bitch alive! yeah, that my sista and i’m so proud how she hold it..."

Sat, 05 Nov 2011 20:31:00 -0400

“illest bitch alive, illest bitch alive!
yeah, that my sista and i’m so proud how she hold it down
illest bitch alive, realest bitch around
pray you rich in confidence
now i’m paying you mind”

- Wale Ambition illest bitch

Drunken nights with Carmen will always be in my memory bank. We...

Sat, 05 Nov 2011 16:57:00 -0400

Drunken nights with Carmen will always be in my memory bank. We ended up going to potty about 4 times at 2 different places in 1 hour! This was in the bathroom of one of the hotels we stopped at. This is proof that we are in a recession! “honor system” my ass! We partied hard last night. I love creating nights that I’ll never forget.

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Fri, 04 Nov 2011 17:10:57 -0400

This picture was taken the summer of 2009. I can’t...

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 13:25:00 -0400

This picture was taken the summer of 2009. I can’t remember if this was Islands of Adventure or Universal Studios (which ever one has Dr. Seuss Land.) This picture brings a lot of joy to my life because it causes me to think of not only my childhood, but my future. I’ve always loved Dr. Seuss, my favorite book being Oh the Places You’ll go. I see a lot hope in this picture. And Will you succeed?? Yes you will indeed, 98 3/4 % guaranteed!

My sister brightens my day

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 13:15:00 -0400

My sister brightens my day

"What you had said his name is?"

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 13:02:12 -0400

*rises hand*.. Excuse me but is that English? .. I seriously had someone ask me this question. My first thought was “WTF?” To answer that ignorant ass question.. i never said his name. Do you wanna know why? .. because its none of your business. I refuse to have people all in my business wondering who im with, what we do, and if we are fucking. it seriously should concern NO ONE! The first step is to admit you have a problem, and i do. im a social network junkie! And one thing i have learned from social networks is to never let bitches in your business (males included).. shit always seems to get real when you decided to change your relationship statuses and get married via twitter i.e. “Twifey” and all that other shit. But since we are admitting our addictions, how about you admit that you’re addicting to being nosy AF. Mind your own business, or get some. After that, everything will fall into place.